Divorce Mediation

Divorce Mediation is the process where you and your spouse hire a neutral third party, called a mediator, to meet with you in an effort to discuss and resolve the issues in your divorce. The mediator does not make decisions for you, but rather serves as a facilitator to help you and your spouse figure out what is best for you and your spouse as well as your children. divorce mediationThe mediator is neutral and doesn’t “work” for either parent. This means the mediator cannot give advice to either party. They must remain neutral no matter what the situation. What the mediator can do, though, is assist the you and your spouse in formulating ideas that can eventually lead to agreements that will stand the test of time. That open and free exchange of information frees up both spouses to negotiate with each other in confidence. Because both spouses are working with the same base of information, it usually takes far less time to negotiate a solution that makes sense to both spouses.

With Ellie’s help, you and your spouse will work through the issues that need to be resolved so that your marriage can end as amicably and cost effectively as possible. She will assist in opening communication between you and your spouse to brainstorms ideas, ensure that expectations are realistic, nurture empathy, and provide clarity within the decision-making process. Ellie’s compassionate approach formulates a respectful relationship between spouses that is beneficial to all those involved.

Watch this video to learn more about Divorce Mediation and why it is the best choice when going through a divorce.
Ellie discusses her passion for mediation and why she feels that mediation is the best option when going through a divorce. Ellie has successfully guided thousands toward settlement:

For our Divorce Mediation service, we offer a payment plan of $500/month for a minimum of 6 months. It will continue until service is completed. You will receive full assistance with all paperwork and Ellie’s excellent mediation services.

Hour long Mediation Sessions are offered at $500/hour.

Divorce Mediation can work for almost all couples and has a long list of benefits.

  • It is less expensive than a court trial or a series of hearings
  • Most often it ends in a settlement of all the issues
  • It is confidential – there is no public record of what goes on in your sessions
  • It allows you to arrive at a resolution based on your own ideas of what is fair in your situation, rather than having a solution imposed upon you based on rigid and impersonal legal principles
  • You can still have a lawyer give you legal advice if you wish
  • You and your spouse, not the court, can control the process
  • It can improve communication between you and your spouse, helping you avoid future conflicts

Please visit our Divorce Mediation website, TheMediatorOC.com for more information.

Uncontested Divorce is the other service offered for those couples who have all issues resolved prior to utilizing our service.  The cost for this service is a $1,500 flat fee.  Our office only deals with the Petitioner and all financial exchanges take place privately between the parties without our involvement.  This is a paperwork only service and must be resolved completely within 3 months of commencement.